Blog | Higher Than Us

Have I become too negative? Noticing myself only recently and I realize I frustrate my husband very easily. He tells me, the first sentence I utter, from the observation I make of anything is in the negative tone. Several thoughts flood my mind, such as, why am I like this. Why am I so miserable. Why am I so stupid... I want to die. Well... more negativity. I coach and train people for a living and I teach them to find the silver lining in every situation, which, I am struggling myself with; to be a healer and a positive person. Am I? I don't even remember when did I start behaving like this. I do not remember when did I start to see the world so negatively and when in the world did I start to want to die. Now that I have noticed it, I want to feel better and be better; for myself and my clients. I guess, for now, I will let my negative thoughts and negative observations be and start all over again; to focus on uttering only when I have something good to say about myself and other...

I coach individuals to help them find dreams in their eyes, clarity in their minds and love in their hearts. I am a certified Resilience Coach, Certified NLP Practitioner, Professional Listner. I am also a Dale Carnegie Certified Trainer. I have a gift. A gift of sensitivity. A gift to serve humanity. With this gift I can help those in need to be seen and heard and guided. I have more information to process than others about my environment and about people around me.   With every gift comes vulnerability. Vulnerability to the negativity as equally to the positivity. The profound love I feel for everything around me, at times turns into darkness for myself, because, one can not be present without another. I am constantly working on myself to serve better. I am grounding myself. Through childhood and my teens, I have suffered not being able to express myself, even though I had vision of talking infront of large audience and influencing humanity to a better life. Specially in difficul...

 I AM I am Love The more words I use to explain ‘I am’, the less its meaning become.  I am on this planet to help people evolve spiritually and emotionally to understand ‘I am’ and come to their full potential. I am here for them to listen to themselves. I am here to help connect them to their true selves. I am here to teach people that all that we are, are results of ‘I am’ and ‘I am’ is a result of ‘Love’.  We are all giant balls of love, underestimating the power within and overestimating the power beyond. Meditate if you truly desire to know what is the meaning of ‘I am’. That the true way to connect to your higher self. Not the only way though.  My best work is inspired by my higher self. I give credit of my success to my higher self. It gave me the right idea at the right time. It gave me the right understanding at the right time. It gave me the right solution at the right time. It gave me the right feelings at the right time. For I decided to listen as soon as...

 I was wondering what and when was the best conversation of your life? Did it include listening? Did it include curiosity and questions? Was it full of awe? Did the conversation go deep? Did you lose track of time?  If you can’t remember, then you probably haven’t had such a conversation yet. And through this blog, I am giving you, an opportunity to have the best conversation of your life. If you have experienced such a conversation, then this an opportunity to feel good about it, and become aware, so that each conversation you have from now on is as powerful! Even the ones that seem irrelevant to you at the moment. We all know someone, who just wants someone to listen to him/her. She doesn’t want any solution or any inputs. She just wants to be heard. I was curious, is it your partner? Is it your parent? Is it your child? Is it a friend? A colleague? It started similarly for me. I wanted to be heard but while everyone else was talking, I felt lost and unheard. That’s when dec...

Have you ever thought about how we define beauty? How does the movie industry or social media industry creates and upgrades beauty standards over time? Or even how we find someone beautiful or attractive? We keep saying that we should see the inner beauty before judging anyone? What if, we actually do that without being aware of it? How many of us found Gerald Butler attractive without watching his movie 'PS I Love you'? I did not. I thought he's okay and I did not understand why people kept telling me he is hot. Then I watched this movie, where he loved unconditionally, and his image was created as a beautiful beautiful person, when he was only acting. Now, I would watch anything he's into. Now I find anyone mildly looking like him, attractive. I watched so many women on social media, who were said to be average looking and once they shared their story, they suddenly became this fierce and gorgeous looking women. Looking at that new perception of beauty the people have...

I am grateful for the job I have which pays for my expenses and let's me enjoy what my life and other people have to offer. I am grateful for the roof over my head and for these walls to keep me safe from the heat and rain and cold, a place I can call home and create memories in. I am grateful to my parents to make me self sufficient and provide me with anything and everything possible. I am grateful to their love and care. I am grateful to my siblings to be there for me when I needed them I am grateful for my partner who supports me and loves me. I am grateful to all my gurus to help me learn ways to express my soul and heart. I am grateful for all the love everyone around me is offering.  I am grateful for the wonderful plants in my house and trees outside to make the air perfect to breathe. I am grateful for the air that I breathe. I am grateful for the love that I receive from my everything around me.  I am grateful for my body, a house for my soul. I am grateful for the p...

Being enough does not have a scale. No one has defined being enough and achieved it. Everyone's being enough modifies everyday. So what does it truly mean? What is it, that makes you want to be enough. Are you enough? Enough in terms of resources? Enough in terms of finances? Enough in terms of love? Enough for your family? Enough in terms of beauty? If you weigh yourself with other's scale, you will never be enough. I'm not saying the standard set by the different industries is evil. It is not. It is sheer expression of what they think is beautiful, and it never means you're not. You are a one hundred percent beautiful in all possible senses. So how can you become enough? And what makes you 'ENOUGH'? You choose BEing enough, just like you choose how much food is enough in 'your' meal. It is a choice. A decision that you are, no more or no less than others. Being enough is when you stop trying to earn something from the outside and start trusting yoursel...