Being enough does not have a scale. No one has defined being enough and achieved it. Everyone's being enough modifies everyday. So what does it truly mean? What is it, that makes you want to be enough. Are you enough? Enough in terms of resources? Enough in terms of finances? Enough in terms of love? Enough for your family? Enough in terms of beauty?
If you weigh yourself with other's scale, you will never be enough.
I'm not saying the standard set by the different industries is evil. It is not. It is sheer expression of what they think is beautiful, and it never means you're not. You are a one hundred percent beautiful in all possible senses.
So how can you become enough? And what makes you 'ENOUGH'?
You choose BEing enough, just like you choose how much food is enough in 'your' meal. It is a choice.
A decision that you are, no more or no less than others.
If you weigh yourself with other's scale, you will never be enough.
I'm not saying the standard set by the different industries is evil. It is not. It is sheer expression of what they think is beautiful, and it never means you're not. You are a one hundred percent beautiful in all possible senses.
So how can you become enough? And what makes you 'ENOUGH'?
You choose BEing enough, just like you choose how much food is enough in 'your' meal. It is a choice.
A decision that you are, no more or no less than others.
Being enough is when you stop trying to earn something from the outside and start trusting yourself. Being enough means you stop looking for glory and start giving. Living and being enough means you stop making more for yourself but you start creating more for others. And when you stop looking for glory, the glory comes big, it won't matter because you are enough! And that will be your biggest achievement. When you do and create something for the world to be a better place, the world offers you everything it has. Give. Give more. You are enough. There is enough to give. Enough to be. Enough to BE.
Here is a little thing that I used to do to start to love myself and find myself enough in terms of beauty.
Sit in front of a mirror. Stare at yourself. Get to know your face. Get to know your skin. Learn how it feels on your fingers. Learn where you have moles on your body. Learn about the dips and hills on your body. Look at yourself. See how you smile. See all the freckles and shades of your skin. Look at your feet, look at your fingers. Stare at yourself. Do this a lot. You'll find yourself falling in love with yourself as if loving a third person. you'll appreciate your body. You'll appreciate your curves, you'll appreciate the beautiful heart that you have. And while you do this beautiful activity, write on your mirror, 'Love' and 'I am enough'. And like magic you will see that you are enough. Just like I did. I am enough.
What do you think a lotus has to do, to be enough? Nothing. Nothing at all. It is just BEing. It is being enough. And everything in this world which does not have to think if it's enough, comes out as a beautiful thing to this world. It simply means, stop trying so hard. Life is simple, life is supposed to be easy. Life is ENOUGH.
Every creature in this world is enough, it does not and should not need anything else to be enough and be what it truly is. We are humans. All we have to do is BE A HUMAN. Make mistakes, laugh, cry, have fun, do spectacular things and BE.
Be yourself.
BE ENOUGH.
BE ENOUGH.
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