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 I was wondering what and when was the best conversation of your life? Did it include listening? Did it include curiosity and questions? Was it full of awe? Did the conversation go deep? Did you lose track of time?  If you can’t remember, then you probably haven’t had such a conversation yet. And through this blog, I am giving you, an opportunity to have the best conversation of your life. If you have experienced such a conversation, then this an opportunity to feel good about it, and become aware, so that each conversation you have from now on is as powerful! Even the ones that seem irrelevant to you at the moment. We all know someone, who just wants someone to listen to him/her. She doesn’t want any solution or any inputs. She just wants to be heard. I was curious, is it your partner? Is it your parent? Is it your child? Is it a friend? A colleague? It started similarly for me. I wanted to be heard but while everyone else was talking, I felt lost and unheard. That’s when dec...

Have you ever thought about how we define beauty? How does the movie industry or social media industry creates and upgrades beauty standards over time? Or even how we find someone beautiful or attractive? We keep saying that we should see the inner beauty before judging anyone? What if, we actually do that without being aware of it? How many of us found Gerald Butler attractive without watching his movie 'PS I Love you'? I did not. I thought he's okay and I did not understand why people kept telling me he is hot. Then I watched this movie, where he loved unconditionally, and his image was created as a beautiful beautiful person, when he was only acting. Now, I would watch anything he's into. Now I find anyone mildly looking like him, attractive. I watched so many women on social media, who were said to be average looking and once they shared their story, they suddenly became this fierce and gorgeous looking women. Looking at that new perception of beauty the people have...

I am grateful for the job I have which pays for my expenses and let's me enjoy what my life and other people have to offer. I am grateful for the roof over my head and for these walls to keep me safe from the heat and rain and cold, a place I can call home and create memories in. I am grateful to my parents to make me self sufficient and provide me with anything and everything possible. I am grateful to their love and care. I am grateful to my siblings to be there for me when I needed them I am grateful for my partner who supports me and loves me. I am grateful to all my gurus to help me learn ways to express my soul and heart. I am grateful for all the love everyone around me is offering.  I am grateful for the wonderful plants in my house and trees outside to make the air perfect to breathe. I am grateful for the air that I breathe. I am grateful for the love that I receive from my everything around me.  I am grateful for my body, a house for my soul. I am grateful for the p...

Being enough does not have a scale. No one has defined being enough and achieved it. Everyone's being enough modifies everyday. So what does it truly mean? What is it, that makes you want to be enough. Are you enough? Enough in terms of resources? Enough in terms of finances? Enough in terms of love? Enough for your family? Enough in terms of beauty? If you weigh yourself with other's scale, you will never be enough. I'm not saying the standard set by the different industries is evil. It is not. It is sheer expression of what they think is beautiful, and it never means you're not. You are a one hundred percent beautiful in all possible senses. So how can you become enough? And what makes you 'ENOUGH'? You choose BEing enough, just like you choose how much food is enough in 'your' meal. It is a choice. A decision that you are, no more or no less than others. Being enough is when you stop trying to earn something from the outside and start trusting yoursel...

Love is. Love is creation. Love is when you breathe. Love is when you sleep. Love is when you are.  Love is divine. We are divine beings. We must let love to flow through us to complete its cycle and meet the earth.  Let me explain. If a box contains water in it. How will you know that it contains water? You won't, until the water overflows and you watch it. Similarly, earth and this universe is/ contains love. You will know about its love once it overflows. And the love pours out in form of creation and life. And this very life, is made out of love. Similarly, this earth is made out of love from this Universe. Everything in this world is created from love.We don't know how many such universes are there, but ours is made out of love. Just like the love inside a composer make him/ her create music. When you love another person, where do you feel love? Is it inside the other person? Is it between the both of you? No. It is inside you. You have let him trigger the love inside You...

We often underestimate our minds, we forget that we are more than our bodies. I read in the book, Think and Grow Rich by Oliver Napoleon Hill, that we have access to any and every secret we might want to discover, through our subconscious mind. The question arises- how! But first let us discuss what is Neuro-Linguistic Programming. Quoting from the site  https://neurolinguisticprogramming.com/  "Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP) is defined as the study of the structure of subjective experience and what can be calculated from that and is predicated upon the belief that all behavior has structure." In my words, NLP adds structure to our perception of this world. It provides us models, tools and techniques to make the best use of our individual minds and to train it to success. NLP shows how the mind works to make the most out of it, whether you want to lead a simple life or become a millionaire or  even both. For instance, "Sleep over it" is not just a phrase...

When I say increasing income, I mean in simple terms, how to make a mindset to generate more income and over time gaining financial freedom. More money comes to you when you create another path for it to flow from. If you keep your money in your account, you'll spend it on irrelevant things. Money has to keep flowing either way, I can't be stagnant. You will have to put your money to work for you. So, if you want to increase the amount of money that comes to you, first you will have to plan on where you want it to go, what will you do with the extra income. For example, before you get an expected increment, you will have to create a need for it. Either to invest it somewhere, or to spend it on material. Either way you'll have to create a path for it to flow to. For example, when you want more water in your house, you will have to get a new pipeline from the source to your house and then to somewhere else, to keep it flowing. So think about what's next in your lif...